Purposeful Motherhood: How To Create A Mission Statement

by Kat on February 24, 2010 · 33 comments

in Create A Motherhood Mission Statement,Featured Posts

Today we’re going to create a mission statement. Yay!

I highly encourage you to set aside some time to work on this from beginning to end. It will require some focus, thought and prayer. But don’t worry about making it perfect, just get a good rough draft. You can tweak it and refine it in the coming weeks.

List Your Roles

The first step in creating a mission statement is to identify your roles in life. Some of them might be things you do. Some of them might be things you are. As you write things down, don’t worry about your order, just write.

Examples:

Wife
Runner
Writer
Christian
Business owner
Employee
Mother
Sunday School Teacher
Small group leader

Prioritize Your Roles

Now order your roles according to what is important to you. Don’t order them according to the places of your greatest responsibility or reward, but rather based on what is most vital and important to you.

For example:
When I was making my mission statement my list looked something like this.

Believer
Wife
Mother
Writer
Small group leader
Runner
Web designer

Simplify Your Roles

Which of your roles are absolute? Which ones MUST you do?

This is where it gets hard. We don’t want to exclude anything, but we must. Our mission statement should not include everything we want to do. It’s kind of like a map. If we stop in every single town along the way, we’ll never reach our destination.

Your mission statement needs to be focused, so that when you’re feeling scattered, you can rely on it to get you back on track.

Example:
When I made my mission statement, I focused on my top four roles. Not that the others weren’t important to me, but the top four are my core.

Believer
Wife
Mother
Writer

Dream

Now select your first priority. Write it down. Take a few minutes to decide what your ultimate dream goal for that role would be. When runners run a race, they don’t just run. They always know where the finish line is and they run to it. If someone were to talk about you in this role, what would you love for them to say?

It doesn’t need to be perfectly worded. Just jot things down.

Now continue this process for each role.

Example:
Now this may be kind of morbid, but when I worked on my mission statement, I thought about what I would want people to say about me when I die.

I’d want God to say,”Well done, good and faithful servant.” I’d want Jimmy to say I was a good and loving wife. I’d want my kids to say that I loved them well and helped them live lives in passionate pursuit of God. And I’d want others to say that I inspired them to love Jesus more.

Create Action Statements

Now it’s time to work your list for each role into actionable phrases. Your mission statement should be active. It should tell you what you should be doing.

Example:
Here’s what I came up with for my mission statement:

To pursue Jesus with my whole heart and surrender all that I am and all that I have so that I can be fully used by Him.
To make Jimmy feel loved, cared for and admired.
To have fun with my children and help them grow up to be people who know, deeply love and wholeheartedly serve God.
To live my life in such a way that others are inspired to fully pursue Jesus and desire constant growth in their personal lives.

Conclusion

More than anything, spend time praying as you develop your mission statement. Ask God to make sure His desires and your desires are aligned. Ask for wisdom and words that will inspire you when times get tough. He has big plans for you, make time to find out what they are.

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. – Jeremiah 29:11

Care To Share?

I realize that your mission statement is very personal, but I’m sure it would inspire others to read what you’ve created. If you’d like to, please share your mission statement here in the comments.

And of course, if you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask.



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1 Org Junkie February 24, 2010 at 8:12 pm

Here is mine:

My Housekeeping Mission Statement

To provide an inviting and peaceful household environment, for my family and all that enter, that is conducive to living simply, loving deeply and laughing abundantly. I will make strides everyday to achieve this by practicing and teaching good daily habits and routines along with effective organizational skills. I will graciously and cheerfully serve my family and genuinely enjoy my commitment to creating a home sanctuary that is above all else pleasing to God.

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2 Kat February 25, 2010 at 7:41 am

Wow. I LOVE that.

Honestly, I read this last night and have thought about it ever since. It’s so inspiring. Thanks for sharing it!

3 Leah February 25, 2010 at 6:13 am

I love your pace. Thank you for helping me take this slowly. I tend to rush ahead without absorbing what I’m reading.

I have a bad attitude about mission statements, but I am ignoring myy inner rebel and doing this process anyway.

Thanks again!

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4 Kat February 25, 2010 at 7:43 am

Leah,
You’re more than welcome! I hope you come up with a mission statement that truly inspires you.

5 jamee February 25, 2010 at 6:21 am

I’ve not been ignoring you!! My reader is not showing your new posts…..I just checked today bc I thought it odd you hadn’t written, even tho you’ve been sick. I’ll catch up this afternoon-

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6 Kat February 25, 2010 at 7:43 am

Yes, there seem to be some issues with my feed. I’m having a lot of trouble figuring out the problem. Thanks for checking in!

7 Suni February 25, 2010 at 10:13 am

thank you for the post on mission statement…it is motivating enough.

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8 Snapper February 26, 2010 at 6:27 am

Stripped down to it’s simpliest form, so that it can get me back on track when I’m feeling scattered like you mention….thank you!

My Quest
(To Become All That I Can Be)

Yield to God’s wisdom…always.
Exemplify and teach the ‘golden rule’ to my children.
Cherish my husband.
Lift the spirits of others and myself.

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9 Kat February 26, 2010 at 6:52 am

Good job! I love how you kept it nice and succinct.

10 Brianna February 26, 2010 at 1:08 pm

I’ve been working on this all week…Thank you for the inspiration.

To know God so intimately that I live wholly surrendered because I know how worth it He is.
To love my husband the way that Jesus wants me to.
To love my kids with Jesus’ love so they will see Him and want to follow hard after Him.
To help others want to know the real Jesus, by how I live and in what I say.

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11 Kat April 3, 2010 at 4:34 am

I love it!

12 Taylor March 21, 2010 at 10:17 pm

I want to be a woman who…
Faithfully pursues God in a way where I can hear from Him regularly, apply truth in all situations and communicate His love to others clearly.
Makes my husband feel loved, accepted and admired.
Makes my children feel loved and accepted no matter how they act, and to have fun with them. To help them grow in the knowledge of Jesus.
Learns more of the Bosnian language every day and accomplishes specific goals each month. (we live in Bosnia)

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13 Kat April 3, 2010 at 4:35 am

Bosnia? Wow!

“apply truth in all situations”

I love that line. Great job!

14 Lisa Middleton April 1, 2010 at 11:16 pm

You have no idea how much this post inspired me!! It was truly a timely gift from God for me. Today (well, yesterday) was a really rough day for me Mommy-wise, and after a mini breakdown, I found this. THANK YOU!! I am working on my mission statement, and hope to be able to share it soon.
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15 Kat April 3, 2010 at 4:34 am

You’re definitely welcome, Lisa! Can’t wait to hear your mission statement.

16 reba April 5, 2010 at 12:29 pm

Ok! Here’s mine! It’s been awesome just praying about this and writing it! I’m so glad to have done this and am glad I will have it when I need it to help me get back on track.

To seek God and to abide in Him faithfully. To know His word so that I may apply truth in all situations and live in a way that clearly shows people His love and grace.

To love J well and to be a helper to him physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

To love my children well and to teach them through example to love Truth and to live joy-filled lives.

To express Jesus’ love to others by creating and keeping a home that is a place of cultivating peace, health, comfort, and creativity, in order to reach the most important goal of fully trusting in and being used by God.

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17 Joelle April 5, 2010 at 1:56 pm

This is a good exercise for me. I think this will give me direction in my homemaking. Here is mine:
To give glory to God in all that I say, do, and think.
To cultivate the hidden woman of the heart, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit (1 Peter 3:4)
To support and cherish hubby, providing him with consistent affirmation, and making him feel special.
To create a welcoming atmosphere of joy in my home and cultivate hospitality.
To foster simplicity, order, and organization so that angels would want to linger in my home.
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18 Laura April 7, 2010 at 5:49 pm

I’m new to your blog but have always loved setting goals.

Yield to God’s wisdom and refinement…always.
Cherish and respect my husband.
Exemplify and teach the ‘golden rule’ to my children, and exemplify/teach passionate love, faith, and obedience towards God.

Encourage the spirits and of others and myself and model Christ’s servant heart.
To run as one “running for the prize”particpating in lifelong exercise.
To maintain a home environment that is conducive to hospitality, well managed, and is a place where people want to be.

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19 Lisa Middleton April 8, 2010 at 10:16 am

I wish mine was as succinct as Laura’s, but here we go:

To show other God’s love daily through my words and actions. To submit daily to Him so that He might use me to my full potential. To immerse myself daily in the Word so that I might more closely walk with God.

To love my husband Levi to my utmost ability. To make him feel loved, respected, and well cared for. I want him to feel like I am the heart of the family…the glue that holds us all together.

To model Christ’s love to my son Oliver and teach him to put God first. To love him unconditionally, no matter what the circumstances. To lead Oliver to God, and to let God transform his life the way He has mine!

Thank you, Kat, for helping me organize these thoughts! You’re fantastic. =)
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20 Amanda April 12, 2010 at 7:48 am

I want to live in God’s world with an open, appreciative and loving heart and seek to be His hands in the lives of others.

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21 Amanda April 12, 2010 at 7:50 am

That’s darling David Archuleta ———->
Im not sure how he came to be my avi here, but there he is. And he IS a wonderful example of all good things :) so I guess its appropriate :) .

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22 Kristi April 13, 2010 at 4:44 am

I am a little late to the party- but better late than never, right?

Here it goes:

To know God intimately
thru study of His Word, Worship, Prayer and Fellowship
And live on His Precepts daily.

To love my husband and encourage him in his faith
To walk beside him and take care of and meet his needs.

To raise my children to know Jesus and serve Him
That they may grow in wisdom and stature, and that they may have kind and generous hearts.

To create a home where love grows, where people feel welcome and see Jesus in our lives.

And to live my life creatively, healthy, and simply. To not sweat the small stuff and to remember to FOUCS on what is most important. To act with integrity and give God glory in all I do.

Thanks for the encouragement Kat!!!
Kristi´s last blog ..Update My ComLuv Profile

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23 Jenni April 13, 2010 at 4:09 pm

I have been working on this for a while–even before I came across your blog. There is so much I want to say/do with my life, I decided to focus on verbs. Maybe it isn’t a true mission statement, but here it is:

Contribute
Love
Learn
Respect
Enjoy

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24 Leigh from 123 blog May 3, 2010 at 4:43 am

Kat, I LOVE this bit

Our mission statement should not include everything we want to do. It’s kind of like a map. If we stop in every single town along the way, we’ll never reach our destination.

Beautiful way of putting it!

I wrote this about a month or two back and I think I’m going to use your process to redefine it further!

http://leighloveslists.blogspot.com/2010/02/redefining-success.html
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25 Tara May 29, 2010 at 5:42 pm

Here’s my first draft…
To know God and His Word and to trust him in everything, that His love for me may overflow into every aspect of my life.
To be a passionate and involved wife to Brett, that he feels loved and respected.
To have fun with our children, listening and being available, always leading them to God, so that they may grow up to know, love and want to serve Him.
To shine God’s light to my family, friends and ‘neighbours’, using my gifts and talents and interactions to always point back to Christ and His gospel.
Tara´s last blog ..Wall Art My ComLuv Profile

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26 stephanie June 10, 2010 at 6:01 pm

I know this post is a little older, but I just stumbled across your blog and love this idea….very timely for me! I look forward to putting spirit-led pen to paper and a voice to my heart. Thanks for the inspiration.

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27 holly July 16, 2010 at 12:51 pm

i did it!
i just found your blog this week (and SO grateful that i did).
i spent some soul-searching time last night coming up with my mission statements for the four most important areas of my life:
MOTHER
*i will strive to be patient & loving with spencer & coleman, spend quality time with them, while focusing on fun and actively setting a good example of the qualities for which they should desire for themselves.*

WIFE
*i will strive to be patient and understanding with matt; be attentive to his needs and cherish him selflessly*

CHRISTIAN
*i will strive to be a more devoted christian with consistent prayer and worship, aiming to be a model to others*

WRITER
*i will strive to write often and consistently for both personal reflection and public consumption, reaching to expand my level of creativity*
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